(Selectively) Ignoring Advice To Help Your Career

In a recent story at Workforce.com, NYC’s Most Powerful Women: How They Did It, Jeremy Smerd asserts: “The best career decisions sometimes come from ignoring the worst advice ….” In this article, he cites multiple examples of successful executives who dismissed advice to follow their instincts … and ultimately to create winning careers.

Dismissing Advice Worked for Me: I’ve Been There.

When I worked in corporate America, during my first year at a service-oriented company, a promotion opportunity arose. Chatting with another low-on-the-totem-pole colleague, the topic of this open job opportunity bubbled up.

She asserted , “You and I cannot apply because we’ve only been with the company a short time, and we don’t have enough experience,” to which I privately bristled and thought, “We’ll see about that.”

Her naysayer attitude sparked my ember of interest; I disregarded her ‘advice’ and became a serious contender, throwing my hat in the job-applicant ring. One month later, after soliciting career interviewing advice and practicing my ‘value stories,’ I beat out several internal, more-tenured candidates and another, external candidate that my then-current boss had recruited to try to deter me.

I landed the job!

Research Before You Leap: There is No One-Size-Fits-All Career Advice.

I encourage you to tend to your career in a similar fashion. Consider “sage” career advisors’ all-encompassing black-and-white assertions with a grain of salt (at first), and then sift out nuggets of career gold tips and strategies that make sense and/or which pique your interest; weave them into your unique, actionable career plan. Judge also the record—and tenure—of the career reporter from whom you are receiving your news. Research and seek out solid, foundational advice from someone deeply experienced and proven in the field about which he pontificates, and which resonates with YOU and your needs.

There IS no one-size-fits all, and the threads of your career plan should be uniquely intertwined to devise your differentiating strategy.

Unfortunately, the waves of unfiltered career advice spilling ashore litter your reading in-box with the sexiest and most popular advice, as well as tips that titillate, agitate and excite you into following the advice. This follower trend often leads to career missteps and job search stalls.

There are no Quick Solutions, Easy Fixes, Top 10 Ways, 3 Simple Strategies, #1 Methods to ensure a perfect job search plan, to create a faultless resume, to participate in a flawless interview, to write the always-effective elevator pitch, to guarantee a winning personal brand, to guarantee online superstardom … (the list goes on).

In fact, ask 10 resume writers, recruiters, hiring managers and human resource professionals what the ‘best practice’ is for ANY aspect of career propulsion, and you will get 10 answers.  I am a master certified professional resume writer, immersed in careers ‘advice’ (both dispensing and receiving), so I know of what I speak!

In other words, read, listen and apply all or parts of hand-selected (and well-researched) advice and consider investing in real, proven, experienced pros for help to advance job search traction.

And when you find yourself drowning in the sea of job search confusion, remember that the bottom line, age-old wisdom that applied 25 years ago still applies today (and perhaps more-so than ever): You must speak to the customer’s (hiring manager’s / hiring company’s) bottom-line needs:

  • Resonate with what matters to THEM.
  • Make THEM feel you ‘get them’ and you are ready to roll up your sleeves and fix their problem.
  • Be the salve to their wound.
  • Be the rescuer to their drowning revenues.
  • Be the repairer of their crumbling processes.
  • Be the marketing pioneer that swells market share and stamps out competitor challenges.
  • BE what THEY need and help them make money.

You will get their attention this way. I ‘guarantee it!’

Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter is a Glassdoor career and workplace expert, chief career writer and partner with CareerTrend, and is one of only 28 Master Resume Writers (MRW) globally. An intuitive researcher, she helps professionals unearth compelling career story details to help best present their unique experience, skillset and interests in resumes and other career positioning documents as well as through social media profiles. In addition to being interviewed for television and radio stories, Jacqui has written for the Career Management Alliance Connection monthly newsletter and blog, ExecuNet’s Career Smart Advisor, The Kansas City Star, The Business Journal and The Wall Street Journal. In addition, she and her husband, “Sailor Rob,” host a lively careers-focused blog over at http://careertrend.net/blog. Jacqui also is a power Twitter user listed on several "Best People to Follow” lists for job seekers.

  • http://www.abilitiesenhanced.com Meg Montford

    Wise advice, Jacqui! I have found what stumps job seekers is conflicting advice from “professionals” they interview when considering one to hire to help them. Recenlty, one individual (now my career coaching cient) asked me about a local professional he'd encountered. Not knowing her very well, but even if I had, I told my client that while this professional had a long-standing record of working with job seekers, I did know that she was not credentialed by any national accredtiing bodies. I feel it's very important that sound job search advice comes from those who've earned their career industry certifications, i.e., proof of learning and hands-on practice. What's even more important is that a job seeker processes all kinds of advice and acts on what he believes will work best for him. There is no single solution fit for all. A careers professional can help a job seeker the most by motivating, challenging, clarifying and supporting his job search process – not telling him exactly what to do.

    Meg Montford, Executive Career Coach
    Abilities Enhanced

  • http://www.careertrend.net Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter

    Conflicting advice, for sure! And the ease of the Internet to self-publish and promote is exacerbating the issue! I love the Internet for making it so easy to 'reach' the world; at the same time, it's created problems, as now the onus is on the reader to look 'under the hood' of the source of this information. 

    Thanks for sharing your story. Agree with your advice to your now-client (yes!) that 'proof of learning and hands-on practice' is essential to hiring the most-valued career consultant / coach, resume writer, etc.  

    I especially like how you rounded your comment out re: a career professional's role, especially the idea of 'not telling him exactly what to do.'

    Thanks much, Meg!
    Jacqui

  • http://www.auntiestress.ca Marianna Paulson

    Sexy rarely gets the job done. It's eye-candy, arousing and short-lived. In these temporally-challenged times, that nicely-packaged quick-fix is alluring, regardless of whether you are in a career shift or a health realignment.

    Take off the wrapping and more times than not, you're left with an empty box, and wallet!

    As you've beautifully illustrated, in fine Jacqui-fashion, the basics still hold true, as unsexy as they may be.

  • http://www.careertrend.net Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter

    Your extended metaphor is impactful! I am visualizing the unwrapped, empty box now!

    Thank you for adding to the conversation, Marianna!

    Jacqui