My entire world flipped upside down. My husband is a highly specialized surgeon, a great father to our 2 kids, and early last year, after 9 years of schooling, he landed his dream job. His comp went up $300k, we got a new house, we committed to private schools, we were excited. We have a great community and are incredibly close to a family with 3 kids - her oldest is in school with my youngest. Turns out, she is in bed with my husband 😬