Want some validation / reassurance / advice on next steps: 31M, HCOL city, $42K in cash savings, ~$450K in retirements (401k/IRAs) - spent a big chunk of cash ($25K) on an engagement ring recently and worried I'm not in great liquid financial shape. We'll have to pay for probably half of our wedding (i'm looking at ~$20k personally). Fiancee is in good financial shape with significantly more liquid than me, but I have a higher net worth.
Thoughts on tangible actions / am I in decent shape?