Shape Security interview questions

Phone Int. Coding challenge take home. Video call. OnSite. (4 interviews) Recruiter reached out and I passed the 1st technical coding take home with a "did quite well" review. On site he said everyone really like me just don't sound arrogant. I did my best. Onsite 5 person in a row interview. 1st technical he said "well done." VP and final person in the panel says "I usually don't come in unless they like you." He did not make any promises except that they would follow up. I contacted them about 5x and each time they ignored me or the recruiter said yeah "I am reaching out to them now..." He gave me three excuses as to why once I told him to please nicely to not worry about telling me yes or no. It had been over two weeks and he promised after the final he would give feedback in "2 days." Overall one of the top 3 worst ever experiences I ever had. Still don't know if they rejected me or hired someone else or what.. I gave up being totally ignored. They asked me questions that were not really on the list of skills technically about CSS when they had required using Material UI. The recruiter also asked me if I was married. I am pretty sure that is against the law.